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There Is Nothing To Be Jealous About

by JG
(alabama)

Just because my boyfriend has female friends on Facebook does not mean he likes them or talks to them.

I have male friends on Facebook that I do not talk to or like or even find attractive. I know for a fact that none of these guys try to holler at me and do not write me messages or anything.

But I do not know for sure if any of my boyfriends' female friends are writing him private messages that I cannot see.

I do not know if they are communicating on his government cell phone during working hours. I try not to ask because I know he will tell me that he doesn't.

I want to believe him 100% and I should because I do trust him. But he is after all a man. I know how important it is for men to feel wanted; especially by other women as they get older.

So my main fear and insecurities lies in the possibility that another female friend of his will be interested in him and have more to offer him than I do, and that he will be interested to be with her and not me.