by Ali Makal
(Kuwait City, Kuwait )
Sometimes I feel that I want to get rid of smoking, overeating, repeating and doing bad behaviors in the work and life. But unfortunately I continue to smoke, overeat, repeat and do the same bad behaviors which destroy myself, my work, my attitude at life and work and I don't know what to do.
Sometimes I feel that I am really and totally wrong at these bad behaviors. In the past years, I wanted to improve my life, my work and future and to develop my attitude experience and skills to better.
So two weeks ago, I talked and interfered too much in the work which had bad impacts and effects in my work situation and attitude at work. And I realized that when you succeed, every one will get jealous and envy you. But when you fail, they will mock of you and your work situation.
So I learned and taught myself a very severe and rough lesson which is silence and listening are the most powerful and respectful tools in life and work.
If you want to succeed, try to listen more all the time and be quite and silent, this will give you more power and respect.
This is my real Opinion.
What are about yours?
Silence and Listening - by: Anonymous
How true to the bone about silence and listening skills. To bad we can not learn this way ahead of the adult life, because people who listen, hardly speak are invited everywhere and become everybody's friend.
Be surprised what you learn from those who smile at you and can give you their life story. We make good friends, when we don't give advice and sit on the fence of life.
Social and Work Pressures Lead to Bad Behaviors - by: Ali Makal
Listening and learning are both integrated Processes; without listening we cannot learn and without learn, we cannot improve our listening and how we can listen and to whom and to what we listen to.
Sometimes we need really to close our mouth to listen, heard and pay attention to what is going around us.
Silence is a really powerful and mysterious tool in life, when you are silent and quite about your life, work, family and other things, you are becoming strong, mysterious and weird.
For me I think more listening and more silence, more success and progress.
And regarding the Friends, if they are real friends, then you can talk, speak, consult and laugh with them, but with your hidden enemies under your colleagues and friends in work and life, you have to be careful and precautions with them.
In work, we need to listen, pay attention and be more silent in our workplace.
Listening, paying attention and being more silent, will give more learning, teaching and successful tools for improving and continuing on life.