What is Romance

Romance is associated with emotion of intense yearning, longing and fantasies. This emotion happens when one person gets really smitten. It brings an explosive feeling of melting and merging with the other person.

This intense love affair can blind the lovers from reality and will make them go through barriers and boundaries. Couples get lovesick when separated and yearn to be together.

When people fall madly in love with each other, they crave for the single touch and agonize the moment of separation. It is not the things that he should do for her that matters but the desire to be together.

But What Happens When Romance Ends

In romantic novels, lovers usually do not end up together. Because of this, the yearning and intense love for each other remains almost forever.

But it doesn't happen in real life. This intimate relationship seems to last briefly. The attraction, infatuation, courtship and intimacy wither. It grows weaker when familiarity and closeness moves in. And it may lose its luster after marriage. When couples get to know each other and live together, it is difficult to have the same intense desire for one another. Either one or both will start to notice flaws and weaknesses.

In the real world, many women wish that the loving feeling in their is kept alive. They wish that their lovers are more romantic. And they blame their partners for not knowing how to show affection.

How to Keep the Romantic Feeling Alive

1. Love yourself and open your heart to love your partner.
   
   
   
2. Practice kind acts and gestures to show that you care and appreciate.
   
   
   
3. Develop understanding and offer warmth and closeness.
   
   
   
4. Love your partner unconditionally for what he is.
   
   
   
5. Give surprises and show unexpected loving gestures.
   
   
   
6. Think loving thoughts.

It is important to develop awareness and love yourself. Otherwise there is a void within you and you will keep hoping love will enter your life. And you will jump from one love affair to another because you feel incomplete and lonely.

Whether you choose to develop your relationship or go separate ways after the end of a romantic experience, you will learn and grow from it. Every emotion and life experience offer lessons and will help you become better.

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