Everything You Do or Don't Do Is A Result of Motivation.
Motivation is a force or impulse that encourages and pushes you to take action. It can arise from external stimulus or internally driven.
We are inspired by possibility or necessity. Your fears and threatening situations can trigger your responses. You either do what you should do, must do or think you can do.
External motivation can come from a promise of rewards hearing a moving speech or encouragement from others.
Movies and songs can also stimulate. However, they are only temporary and brief. Once the triggers, rewards and incentives are gone, your desires subside and wear off.
Internally driven motives are more effective to push you. They are the voices you hear or the images that pop up in your mind and from your gut feeling.
"Motivating begins with introspection, begins with self-examination, begins from the inside out." – The Master Motivator by Mark Victor Hansen and Joe Batten
Your thoughts zoom so quickly that you can't catch them. Are you consciously aware of your attitude and your responses? What about your thoughts and your feelings? Even your memory, the way you filter and sort your information, affects your motivation. What you can do is become aware, listen and watch.
Your behavior and personality are shaped by your beliefs and they affect your performance. Are you able to stand apart and observe yourself? Being able to observe yourself allows you to review an event in a new way?
When you pay attention and as your self-awareness grows, you will notice that you are the one who has been holding you back. Your emotions and not logic motivate you.
Examine where you are right now and where you want to be. When you understand yourself and what makes you tick you will make wise choices. Observe your behaviors, responses and feelings. Change the traits that are sabotaging your growth and success. Set up a new and more powerful self-image
Your belief that you do not deserve to succeed and are not a worthy person will affect you greatly. When you are able to examine where these limiting beliefs and thoughts of lack came from, you can question and challenge them.
Humans are motivated by many different needs. You have to examine your needs to empower you to take actions to the realization of your goals. When you feel confident, in control and directed your energy increases and you are motivated to make plans and take actions.
"The best motivation is self-motivation." Jim Rohn
Self-motivation is a driving force within you that activates your actions without being directed by others. It is a fire from within. Becoming self-motivated gives you the power to decide. You make your own choices and hold yourself responsible to the results from your activities or inactivity.
The impulse starts to sprout from your internal desires for gains and to avoid loss. When you become aware that you have unmet needs in any area of your lives, you look for the solutions. Our pains can motivate us to take action. The chaos in our lives precedes our growth.
You are interested in yourself and motivated by your own drives. You have to look for ways to achieve your dreams because nobody is coming to your rescue. Other people cannot motivate you. They can only help bring out the awareness in you.
You can use external triggers to push you. Things outside you may be a stimulus. But first you must have the desire to get started or to continue what you set out to do. The response is up to you.
When it comes from within, you do not need external rewards to move you to take disciplined action and stay focused. You are able make decisions and take action.
"Goals. There's no telling what you can do when you get inspired by them. There's no telling what you can do when you believe in them. There's no telling what will happen when you act upon them." - Jim Rohn
You have to have goals. Your goals together with a positive thinking attitude provide the directions to your success. Goals give you the passion and the energy to intensify your actions. When your goals are personal, you keep trying to produce the outcomes.
Challenges and setbacks, which are inevitable, will still frustrate but you do not get stuck. Use them as learning experiences, make corrective actions and move on.
Knowing what you want and why you want it will inspire you to plan your steps. You will develop the disciplines to do something each day. You will focus your attention on solutions instead of the task involved.
The reasons behind your goals will act like the fuel that burns your desires. Your reasons move you to take actions because you know what is important. When the going gets tough your big reasons for your goals will keep you going. When you have enough reasons to do something, you will do it. Accomplishing your goals gives you the feeling of self-fulfillment and personal satisfaction.
"Everything you do is triggered by an emotion of either desire or fear." – Brian Tracy
Your emotions affect your motivation. They stir you to take actions. You push yourself furthest when your personal goals are emotionalized. During the process of moving toward your goals you will face several challenges. You will experience emotions like fear, frustrations, doubts, disgust and anxiety.
Though these emotions have negative consequences you can challenge them. Your emotional states change from moment to moment. You do not experience positive feelings all the time. The same goes with a negative feeling. The feeling you felt a while ago usually has been replaced by another emotion.
What you could do is not to indulge and get stuck in a negative emotion but to produce more of the positive feelings. If you find yourself losing your motivation half way through a project and lack the drive to continue, why don't you reflect on it. Look within you and search for what is holding you back. Stop yourself and ask questions. Become aware of your thoughts and feelings.
Your motivation and enthusiasm can be dampened from emotions that pull you down. This is why it is helpful to understand your emotions and how they trigger you either positively or negatively. When we understand how and why we feel and act in a certain way we have control. And that will give us the power to take a different approach.
When you start to question yourself and listen to your self-talks, you will most likely realize that they are mostly negative. Your inner critics are the silent voices inside you that you can hardly hear. They are the ones that have created your beliefs about yourself on your weaknesses and strengths. They greatly affect your emotions and your actions.
Outside events and people can trigger your emotions. But only you can decide to allow them to either empower you to take actions or do otherwise. Faith, hope and love are a few of the positive emotions. The "I can" emotion of courage will help you stay motivated, challenge yourself and take the risks.
"People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither does bathing; that's why we recommend it daily." - Zig Ziglar -
You need to take actions every day to achieve your goals, dreams and desires. And to keep on keeping on you need the motivation. You can maintain your drive to take action by doing several activities daily to develop your discipline. Your daily activities and the efforts you put in produce results.
How to Stay Motivated
Learn through reading, observing and asking questions.
Read motivational and inspirational books, stories and any information that inspires you and will help you build and grow.
Observe what is happening around you and within you. What people are doing that bring the results that you want in your life.
Learn about yourself. Observe why you do what you do and notice the outcomes.
If you discover something that improves your life keep doing it.
Ask questions from yourself and others. Find out what makes you or others tick and what triggers your motivation the most.
Listen and watch motivational and inspirational recordings.
Expand your knowledge and insights through other people's experiences by listening and watching motivational and inspirational recordings. You can do this while driving, exercising, and doing your daily chores. Put aside the time for this activity
Review your goals.
Setting goals is an ongoing process. After having written your goals, review your major goal daily. Keep it fix on your mind. Your mind thinks in pictures and not words. Visualize achieving your goals daily. Fill in the colors, the sound and the sensations. Make them real. Check off the ones that you have achieved. Add new ones after you finish one and as your knowledge and skills improved.
Keep track
Keep track of your thoughts, emotions and activities daily. Record them in a journal. They will provide you with more insights on what is working and what needs your attention. Keep track of your progress and achievements. Measure you progress. You can build your motivation by getting results.
Stay healthy
Do a little exercise each day to maintain your physical health. If you can run, run. If you prefer to walk, then walk. Eat well and avoid toxic elements into your system.
Associate with the positive
Just like your emotions, your daily interactions with people can either pull you up on push you down. You can't expect to have positive people around all the time. But what you can do is minimize your encounters. This applies to your self-talks too. Watch out what you say to yourself and stop it when you realize that it is not helping you. Take time off to listen and become aware of your limiting thoughts.
Plan your activities ahead.
Plan your day and week in advance. Decide what you are going to do. Reflect, write and plan your activities. You can do great things if you plan ahead and work for it.
Take action.
Taking positive actions produce positive results. The results you gain will give you the motivation to succeed further. It takes consistent and focused effort to bring you the success that you desire.
"There are books to write, negotiations to make, money to be made, so go for it." – Source unknown