by ursula
(san jose, ca )
How does one begin to move on when she still loves this man?
Knows he and she both made mistakes, but they overcame them and moved on.
This time we can't overcome the mistake and he moved on after 10 years.
I want to apologize for all my mistakes and want him to speak to me.
How does one move on from this?
How To Move On - by: Anonymous
Moving On! I learned that when one makes mistakes, it is apart of growing and learning to communicate effectively...You could not learn this unless you make mistakes that show you where you are falling short, or just a desire that forbids you to see.
Moving on is about forgiving without expectations. I learned to move on and still from time to time have pains from the "one thing" my life needed...a partner! For this, I was stripped of the intelligence that does no good for those who "seek love, or to feel loved".
If you expect to move on then you must "let go" let go" because you are not truly forgiving because you are expecting in return! Moving On!
Then, Begin to see the handwriting on the wall! Moving on begins when you find something measurable that allows the "freedom to express" that which you closed up before your desire limited your receiving that which you painfully lost! To loose is to endure...Perseverance is when you start to realize "YOU CAN"! Move ON!
Fix Together or Move On
by: Artemis
Mistakes happen when people don't communicate.
Find the way to talk to him, say everything you want to say to him, why you made mistakes and what caused you to make the mistakes you did. Be honest and true.
Ask him why he did what he did and LISTEN to him; this is the key to know how he thinks about you and your relationship that causes him to make the mistakes. Here you are going to find out if he wants the relationship to continue or it is better to move on with your life.
Remember that when is time to close one door and learn from it, other doors will be open for you. This is how life works.