Many people missed opportunities and don't get what they want because they hesitate to make the important decision or to take the necessary action. Not wanting something bad enough and the lack of self confidence are two possible reasons for hesitation.
As they delay further to make corrective actions and to take the next step, their dreams will die a sudden death. They may never get the chance to experience the joy and pleasures of accomplishments unless they change their attitudes.
"Do not vacillate or postpone. Who knows when death knocks. Maybe, he may knock this very night, this very moment; therefore, do not delay. Do you postpone for tomorrow the dinner of this day." - Sri Sathya Sai Baba
One of the reasons that you delay in making the decision and doing what you should is that you have not acquired sufficient amount of information to make good judgment. Lack of skill is also another problem that is holding you back and making you slow to act. Lack of knowledge and skill doesn't provide you with enough choices.
The solution is to educate yourself. You can find the topic of your interest from books, video and audio programs. You can ask those who know what you don't. You can copy and imitate others. Here's a list of self help books, audio and video programs that you can choose for your self education.
If you have been reluctant to take action in spite of having listed your goals, probably it's because you don't have big enough reasons to want them. Ask yourself why you want to achieve them. Check your list and find out if they are yours or are you trying to fulfill other people's needs. Focus on what you want and not on imaginary hurdles. Visualize and picture the outcome of having achieved them.
Are your fears making you falter? Your fears of feeling humiliated, of not getting the approval and of failing and making mistakes will create mental roadblocks. Once you accept these obstacles as true in your mind, you freeze and hesitate. They will destroy your ambition. In order to overcome your fears you must recognize, question them and break them apart.
You must believe in yourself and have the determination to take massive action. Do the thing that you don't want to do but must do. Repeat them often enough and you will develop a new habit of becoming decisive and proactive.
When you hesitate to do what you must do with your life, you are putting it on hold. You wait around for the right time and the right person to show up. Of course that doesn't happen in real life. You must make things happen and attract the people and the situations that you want into your life. You must do it quickly for you never know how much time you have left on your sojourn on this earth.
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