Why You Don't Get What You Think You Deserve

Many people think they deserve better success, a salary increase, promotion, respect, love and so on. The trouble is though they wish for all the blessings to show up in their lives, they aren't doing the necessary things that they should to bring about its manifestation. Because they haven't earned it, they aren't worthy of receiving what they wish for.

The other reason why people experience the lack of success, growth and progress in life is because deep within them they feel that they aren't entitled to receive. They feel unworthy of love, happiness and prosperity. So they become a victim of self sabotage. They'll do anything, without being aware of it, to ensure that don't get what they hope for. They'll justify by saying that they are always unlucky or that people are treating them unfairly.

"No matter how qualified or deserving we are, we will never reach a better life until we can imagine it for ourselves and allow ourselves to have it." - Richard Bach

How to Attract What You Deserve

Know what you want.

It starts with identifying what it is that you want and not what you wish or hope for. Wishes change very often and your obedient mind can't figure it so it can't help you get there. Decide on your goal and know the reasons why you want it. Put it in writing and fix it in your mind. Imagine it and visualize the end result.

Believe.

Do you believe that you deserve financial, career success, a loving relationship, being respected or to have the lifestyle that you dream of having? Believing in yourself and having the faith that you have the right to claim what you've asked for is very important to the realization of your goals.

If you don't believe in yourself, who would? If you have been accepting that you aren't worthy of better things, question those limiting thoughts. Who has been telling you that you don't have the merit to warrant success? Have you ever tried to challenge those opinions?

Take action.

You already know what you want and you also believe that you are worthy of receiving. The next thing to do is to affirm your beliefs by taking action. If you want a raise go and ask for it. If you want more success put in double or triple the efforts.

Give first before you receive.

If you want more love and respect, give out love and show respect to yourself and others. If you want more money, put in more hard work and offer better services.