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Confused About Love

by Tausha
(Tulsa)

I have 2 exes and one of them is completely in love with me. His name is Robert. But my other ex tells me she is in love with me but don't want to be with me. Her name is Briauna (BB).


I love BB a lot and I used to love Robert but I haven't been with Robert for a while now. But we still talk and hang out with each other.


The problem is I cheated on BB with Robert. That's the reason she doesn't want to be with me and because of where we live right now.


I am getting feelings back for Robert even though I'm not yet over BB and she knows that. She keeps telling to get back with Robert. But it would be bad if I did because I'm not over BB.


So right now I am just chilling until I know what I want to do.


BB tells me that she wants to be with me after we leave school. But I find it hard to believe because she has already moved on with a girl named Keyona. I cannot stand that girl. Keyona is the one who took BB away from me.


I am not really sure what to do? I have feelings for both but then again I don't.


Have you ever loved someone who does not love you back?


Comments:


Hi Tausha,


To answer your last question, No, I have not experienced a one sided love.


After reading your story, I am as confused as you are.


I suggest that you leave BB alone because she is with someone else. Furthermore she may not forgive nor forget that you have cheated on her with Robert.


If you want to get back with Robert, go ahead and forget about BB.


Another suggestion is to forget both of your exes and start fresh. From your writing, I assume that you are still studying. So focus on your studies. At the same time go out, have fun and socialize with your other friends.


If you have fun things to do and a different focus, you will gradually forget about your exes.


Wishing you all the best.

FM



Edit: Looks like Tausha Swarer or Tulsa is still very confused. Here is her new submission.


I think I love him
Submitted by Tulsa


There is this guy named Robert and we dated once in January for a week. I broke up with him. I have no idea why though.


We continued to see each other even after I had started dating someone else. It got bad because I ended up cheating on her with Robert. Robert and my relationship got really deep and he fell in love with me and we had an amazing time when we were together. Not like sex but as in any time we were with each other we were always laughing and there were no bad times at all. We were VERY happy.


But after I got back with the ex that I cheated on, everything went downhill. He changed a lot. He started doing drugs. He stopped caring about his education. He stopped caring about his music. He sings and he is good).


The problem is that he knows he gets to me. Anytime I’m around him I get butterflies. I get a feeling like I never have with anyone else. But I don’t want to be with him because of the drugs. I want the old Robert back. I miss that. He pushed me away with all the drugs.


I love him and care about him a lot and don’t want anything bad to happen to him. I have tried everything to get him to stop using but it doesn’t seem to work at all. I guess if you don’t want help then there is no reason to keep trying to change someone that doesn’t want to change.


I just don’t know what to do any more. I don’t know if I should go on from him or keep trying to fix thing? I’m so confused.


P.S and it doesn’t help that i have feelings still for my ex.