"When you blame others, you give up your power to change." - Dr. Robert Anthony -

Everyone can blame someone else or something for the bad experiences in life. This attitude belongs to a person who is insecure and immature. You can never take charge of your own life if you keep pointing your finger to everyone or everything but yourself.

Whatever someone has done, you are equally responsible. You may have contributed to the undesirable things in the form of your thought or your reaction. Why not look at your own attitude. Notice your habits and codes of conduct. Observe how you response to situation and people.

• It does not matter who's right or wrong.

Instead of blaming, take an in depth look and find a solution. Use your past experiences as lessons but don't get yourself carried away and trapped in them. Leave the intimidating people, situations and memories behind. In order to progress you must design a different future and keep moving forward.

• Watch your thoughts because they determine your outcome.

Amend your thinking and perception. Change your focus on what to do about the problem. It is an opportunity for you to learn and progress. Have a consuming desire to succeed so that whenever something goes wrong, your mental focus remains on your goal.

• Hold yourself responsible for your own personal growth and success.

The result in your life will change if you make a firm decision to stop finding fault and accusing others. If you have made a mistake or failed, evaluate and make corrections. Overcome your frustrations by taking actions. It's never too late to start anew.

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