Seeking Balance

Being out of balance is one of the reasons for stress in life. With several roles and responsibilities to carry out daily and having to juggle the demands of work, family and personal life, a person can feel overwhelmed.

It is a daunting task to do a balancing act and attain equilibrium. But it has to be done otherwise problems will arise when a person focuses too much attention on one area of her life and neglecting the others.

Lifestyle imbalance contributes to health problems like hypertension and obesity. It is quite common to hear of couples having problem in their relationships when a child enters into their lives because new mothers tend to pay no heed to their husbands. And there are women who complained about having "no life" once they enter motherhood. You might have also heard about kids becoming delinquent due to parental neglect because the parents were too busy with their careers

A well adjusted lifestyle has to include physical, recreational and mental activities, socializing and participating, and putting aside time for personal and spiritual growth.

Work while you work and love what you do. Doing a good job gives you personal satisfaction and makes you feel worthy. But don't get obsessed with it. There is time for work and also for play.

At the end of your work day and work week, put aside time for exercise, a hobby or recreation. There are so many benefits of getting involved in activities outside work. Some of them are being able to maintain good health, keeping your weight under control, reducing stress, improving your relationship and increasing your energy level.

Having the right way of thinking is very important. You will manage, control and balance your relationship, career, finances, time, emotions and your personal life better with the right mental attitude. If you complain that you don't have time and are too busy, it has more to do with your attitude and bad personal management.

Put aside at least half an hour each day to stimulate your mind. You can use the time to read self help books, try mind mapping, visualizing, do brain teasers or anything else that stimulate your mind.

Spend quality time with your family each day. One of the easiest ways to have a family time is to have dinner together. Put your work aside during the weekends and have fun with them.

Schedule time to hang out with your friends and participate in activities that improve your relationship, teamwork and comradeship.

One of the ways to seek balance and stability in your life is to allow time for your personal and spiritual growth. It means allowing time for meditation, contemplation or prayer. This is one of the ways to release your daily stresses and anxieties, regain your energy and for self discovery.

Try the Silva Life System guided meditation to get yourself into the deep alpha brainwave level easily.

Identify your personal values. You lose your sense of balance when your actions contradict with your personal values. Doing something against your will creates tension and disharmony in your system. List down what are the important things in your life. It's easier to balance your life if you are aware of your principles, standards and ideals.

Write down your list of short, medium and long term goals. What are your career goals? What do you want to accomplish for and with your family? What do you want for yourself? Categorize them and then pick one out of each category, allocate the time you are going to spend on each goal per day and do them.

This will eliminate wasting your energy from running around, going in circles and getting yourself exhausted or frustrated. It also helps you avoid activities that are unrelated.

Schedule your priorities. Know what needs to get done or you'll end up not accomplishing much because you are in a state of chaos and confusion. Reorder your tasks and differentiate which are the "should" and the "must" do.

Try to create as much good feeling as you can. The time that you spend on being angry, anxious and worry is a waste. Become aware of your bad feelings, snap out of it and replace them with good ones and maintain your poise. Don't entertain negative thoughts and people.

Get some quiet times. The world is going around with so much to absorb that you can get overwhelmed. Your body needs to relax and your soul requires nourishment. Take time to calm your mind by meditating and being in silence in your own personal space.

Try the Silva Life System guided meditation to get yourself into the deep alpha brainwave level easily.

Your Response or Comment

What do you think?

Go back to life page.

Return from balance page to about personal growth homepage.